How does one succeed in life?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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That's it for today.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Procrastinates a lot.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If a person stops thinking one or two words in a second or half second means he had stopped thinking for half second?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

My wife admitted to cheating on me with a married man. Should I tell this man and his wife that I know?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.